Practical guide

Give a gift together, without the hassle

A console, a bike, a weekend away: some gifts are too expensive for one person but perfect for three or four. Group gifts still have a bad reputation: who pays upfront, who owes what, who actually buys it? With a little method, it becomes the simplest gift of all.

Updated on 12 November 2026

Three questions to settle

Who's in, and for how much? Who buys the gift? How do you stop someone else giving the same thing on their own? A money pot sorts out the money, but not the other two questions.

With je l’offre, step by step

  1. On the list, pick the idea that's too expensive for you alone and offer to give it together.
  2. Enter your share. The other contributors add theirs, up to the price of the idea.
  3. Discuss among contributors (who buys, when, where) in the chat set up for that purchase.
  4. Once the total reaches the price, the gift is marked “given together”: nobody else buys it.
  5. The person being celebrated sees none of this.

What about the money?

je l'offre doesn't handle any payments or take any commission: contributors sort it out among themselves, by bank transfer or in cash. Usually one person buys and the others pay them back their share.

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Frequently asked questions

Can I withdraw my share?

Yes: everyone can withdraw their share from the list, and the idea stays open to the other contributors.

Can an idea be reserved by one person and bought together?

No: an idea is either reserved by one person or bought together, never both. That's what prevents duplicates.

Do you pay on the site?

No. je l'offre doesn't handle any payments: everyone pays their share directly to whoever buys.

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